Garden of Remembrance – Public Notice of Memorial Plaques Extension – St Nicholas

St Nicholas’ Church – Garden of Remembrance – Pubic Notice & proposed changes

This is a beautiful quiet space by the church. Ashes are placed here and loved ones are remembered often with flowers. The existing 1990s wall is in a state of disrepair as identified in both the 2014 and 2019 Quinquennials Inspections, and its unattractive looks detract from the garden. In addition, the demand for plaques from church members and the wider community mean that space for these will run out in the next year to two. 

We wish to repair the wall and to make improvements to provide additional space for plaques at the same time as this provides the most cost-effective approach for stonework. 

Below you can find details of our proposed improvements for additional plaques and the ideas we have considered in making our decision on the best way forward. The process to get consent from the Diocese to do the repairs is straight forward. However, for the improvements we need to obtain a Faculty which involves giving public notice of our plans and allowing time for people to object.    You can find the Public Notice here

The improvements we propose making involve creating space for plaques on the walls of the 1990s office extension to the Church.  This will involve the addition of a new stone facing on the West print room wall for additional space, and also a 2metre extension beside the existing plaque space on the North office wall.  For those interested in the details, these are the links for Remembrance Panel Plans West and North  

We have discussed widely with the DCC and those who do interment of ashes and the affixing of plaques. Originally the architect suggested we build on two piers to the existing walls in the remembrance garden; this would provide very few additional plaque spaces and would create a damp and dark space in all the corners. We also thought of building up. The existing walls are made of poor quality, crumbly stone and the advice is not to build on something that has proved to be non-durable and weather sensitive. The architect, Stefan Skanski’s original idea was to add two piers and also a new wall. The new wall would be costly and also may well go over interred ashes. The idea is not a popular one and would change the space in the churchyard. New foundations would need to be dug and possibly disturb burials of ashes and it would divide some old plaques from new ones. No one was in favour.

We then considered adding stone to the west wall of the print room (part of the 1990s church extension). This may need foundations but is still cheaper than building a new wall. It is much less intrusive. The stone should blend with that of the print room. There are no burials to worry about and it does not intrude into the churchyard. Daffodils and snowdrops grow in the surrounding space. This keeps the shape of the remembrance garden intact and does not intrude on the churchyard. It is likely to provide 10-20 years’ space for plaques. The same parties have been consulted within the church and are happy with this plan. The print room will benefit insulation wise from another layer of stone on the wall.

Vicky Platt – Church Warden

February 2024

Funerals

Dealing with the death a loved one can be a hard time, with many difficult feelings, and lots of questions and anxieties. Whether or not you (or the person who has died) are regular attenders, the Church can offer support and help during those difficult days. A service can be held in the Church and/or at a crematorium/cemetery.
A minister from the church will meet with you, talk you through planning the funeral service, and can help with any questions or concerns. If you would like to discuss the possibility of a Christian service, the first thing you should do is tell your funeral director/undertaker who will explain what to do.
There is useful information about planning for a funeral on the Church of England funerals site.

An application can be made to have the deceased’s ashes interred in St. Nicholas’ churchyard. Please contact the Parish Office for more details.

Weddings

A wedding is a great moment for a couple, as you mark your commitment and celebrate with your families and friends. We also believe it is a moment to celebrate God’s love and ask for his blessing. The three churches of our parish offer beautiful, peaceful settings for your special day – and our clergy will be happy to help you plan and prepare. You will find lots of information in our Parish “Wedding Pack” here If you would like to make arrangements for your wedding please contact the Parish Office.
You can also find plenty of useful information about planning a wedding service at Your Church Wedding.

pack updated 12/1/2022

Baptisms

Baptism (also known as christening) is a celebration of a person’s life in which they are welcomed into God’s family, and in which we pray for God’s blessing on them. If you would like to arrange a baptism at one of the three churches in our parish, please contact the Parish Office.
There’s lots of useful information about planning a baptism/christening on the Church of England Christenings website.